Showing posts with label Mums. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mums. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Make your money work for you

Following on from my recent blog post on financial check-ups, once you've reviewed your financial situation here are some ways to save money, earn additional income and make your money work for you

More money
Consider ways to generate additional income or earn extra money so you can boost your income, pay any bills or start saving. Be creative - think outside the square and try different options.

Passive income
Earn money and clear your home of clutter by selling unused household items such as clothing, children's toys, furniture, appliances etc... online, at a stall or garage sale.
It doesn't need to be a massive task or require large amounts of time - break it down by grouping into categories or selling one item at a time.
Activities such as re-gifting and swishing (clothes and accessory swapping) are gaining popularity, with thousands of unwanted gifts sold or exchanged online on sites such as TradeMe and iSwish.

Save money
Consider some form of personal savings such as Kiwi Saver, an interest-bearing savings account, term deposit or similar. If your finances are tight, start small - remember, every little bit counts.
When making essential purchases, look for sale and discounted prices or shop around and negotiate. Many retailers will give some form of discount if you ask, especially for cash (which often includes credit card purchases). Be assertive, firm and confident in your negotiations.
Identify any opportunities to reduce your spending or minimise your expenses e.g. growing, baking or making something yourself rather than buying ready-made or pre-packaged goods.
Save money by re-gifting to friends and family throughout the year (be careful you don’t re-gift to the same person).
Alternatively, consider donating unwanted or excess items to charities and other community groups. Whilst you might not receive financial rewards, the value of helping others can be priceless.

Need help with your money? Do you have parenting question you'd like answered? Email Karyn results@rileylife.co.nz

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Why Parents Need to Have Fun Too!

Parents often find the boredom of similar routines and responsibilities, day in, day out, monotonous, all-consuming and overwhelming. At times, it can feel like all the fun and spontaneity in life has gone for good.

Many parents also commonly place the needs of others before their own, leaving little time or energy for self-care and fun.

As parents, we're told we should be investing a great deal of time, energy and often money to ensure our children are raised living happy, constantly-entertained, fun-filled lives.

But what about us, the Parents? Who said only little kids get have fun? We "big kids" not only want to have fun but need to have fun. Why? Because it helps us stay sane when life with children at times can feel like anything but.

I was recently one of over 300 parents who attended a parenting talk given by Nigel Latta, NZ Clinical Psychologist and Author. We were treated to an evening of learning, laughter and lighthearted entertainment.

The best thing about the night wasn't the great practical parenting advice Nigel shared with us; it was parents going out for a night with their friends and partners, and having a really good laugh! It was an opportunity to sit back, relax and enjoy the lighter side of life (without feeling guilty for doing so!).

What helps you to relax and enjoy life? What's stopping you from enjoying life as it is right now? What do you need to do to include fun and enjoyment in your life?

It's a fact: laughter makes us feel good, and that's something I think we "grown-ups" could do with more often.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Celebrating Mothers

Every day should be Mother's day!

Mothers day is a special time for families to connect and celebrate the amazing world of parenthood.

As mothers, we have one of the most rewarding yet challenging jobs there is.

If you are a stay at home mum you might be dealing with isolation, loneliness and boredom with the same routine day in, day out. You may be putting everyone elses needs before your own, with little time or energy left for self-care or relationships.

If you are a working mum you are probably balancing the demands of work and family life, juggling various roles and your available time to fit "everything" in. You could be experiencing feelings of guilt at returning to work and missing out on special milestones or events in your child's life. You may have little time or energy left for yourself and/or your partner.

Do you want to get your life back? (even for just one day!)

This Mother's day sit back, relax and let go of the burden of responsiblity and guilt. Celebrate WHO you are as a person, not just as someone's mother. Remember that mothers are people, too!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to you!